Why do I love living in The Kingdom of Cambodia? The lovely Khmer people are some of the world’s warmest, friendliest, and downright nicest folks. The warm tropical climate agrees with me and contributes to the production of a wide variety of delicious tropical fruits. It is a ceaselessly fascinating place, although not a place everyone will like or feel comfortable visiting. There is extreme poverty, social inequality (everything from rampant land-grabbing to oppression of ethnic minorities), corruption and lack of reliable infrastructure. On the other hand it is good cheap living there. You can get a great apartment for $150 a month and eat a tasty breakfast of rice, fried egg and barbecue pork for 50 cents, which is pretty hard to beat.
Cambodia’s cultural heritage and social structure is as interesting, complex and inscrutable as that of any country with thousands of years of history. From the magnificent temples of Angkor Wat to Apsara dancing, modern hip-hop influenced pop music and traditional foods such as the unusual Prahok, Cambodia’s rich cultural heritage is a source of pride for its citizens and wonder for tourists and ex-pats.
As a student of Buddhism I enjoy proximity to the many temples and monks. Cambodia is 95 percent Buddhist with small Christian and Muslim minorities. There are thousands of Buddhist temples, called Wats or Pagodas, in the country and more than 100,000 monks who can be seen each morning begging for alms of money and rice.
Cambodia is one of the poorest countries in the world and has what many regard as one of the most systemically corrupt governments, as the poorest countries everywhere tend to have. But the country is at peace with all of its neighbors -- Thailand, Laos, and Vietnam -- and life for many continues to improve since the early 1990’s when the UN spent over $2 billion in a massive effort to help turn things around for this war-torn nation of 14 million.
I am a photographer, philosopher and life-long student and I’m able to pursue all of these interests in a place that is ripe with exotic, sometimes tragic and surprisingly beautiful photo opportunities, where the people have a unique perspective and outlook on life and almost always smile despite the sad history and difficult struggles of their proud nation. While many, if not most, of these smiles are quite genuine, one must remember that in Asia all things are not as they seem (are they anywhere?) and a smile is commonly used to mask one’s true thoughts and emotions. Some of the seemingly nice, smiling friendly faces belong to ruthlessly cold and brutal people who would cut your throat without a second thought if it meant self-enrichment or advancement. Many Cambodians still suffer from PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) due to the extreme poverty, often dysfunctional government, and a disturbingly violent modern history.
Many Westerners live and work in Cambodia. I’m not sure of the population country-wide, but in Phnom Penh alone there are easily more than 7,500 Westerners and over 100 bars and restaurants that cater almost exclusively to the Western ex-pat and tourist market. The community of Westerners can be divided into a number of fairly homogenous groups -- the French, English teachers, NGO do-good workers, and adventure-seekers. A sub-group of the adventure-seeker population of ex-pats is commonly referred to as sex-pats (sex tourists) due to the prevalence of prostitution.
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Only now are the UN trials of the Khmer Rouge for war crimes and other atrocities beginning. How do Cambodians feel about the upcoming Khmer Rouge trials set to commence next year? Feelings range from apathy to unbridled enthusiasm. While many are fervently in favor of finally bringing the few remaining Khmer Rouge leaders to justice, just as many are deeply distrustful of Cambodia’s government and judicial system, commonly thought by many, Cambodians and others, to be among the most corrupt in the world.
There are three main political parties in Cambodia -- the CPP (Cambodian People’s Party) is the ruling party, FUNCINPEC, and the opposition party known as the Sam RainsyParty. Most Cambodians are apolitical, too busy trying to eke out a living for themselves and their families. It is also difficult to gauge the validity of what a Cambodian may tell you about what he or she is thinking due to the often repressive atmosphere where people who exercise free speech are silenced with impunity by being jailed or worse. Anyone with money, power and influence has connections to the police, army and government, all of which can be leveraged to have people sued, jailed or killed.
As in the neighboring Kingdom of Thailand, the Khmer people love their king. The reigning monarch, King Sihamoni, has been on the throne for only a few years. He is steadfastly apolitical, is how he came to be king through the long-standing leadership of the prime minister, Hun Sen. The king is the son of former King Norodom Sihanouk, a colorful and enigmatic figure who played a key role in shaping modern Cambodian history.
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About half of the central Cambodian government’s annual operating budget comes from what are known as “donor countries” which include Japan, Korea, China, France, the U.S. and other Western nations. Much of the social welfare and education in Cambodia is performed or financed by NGOs, non-governmental organizations such as UNICEF, the Red Cross, Doctors Without Borders and Wild Aid. More than a thousand such organizations operate in Cambodia today.
In Cambodia, as virtually everywhere else in Southeast Asia bargaining for what you want to buy is de rigueur. Most shopkeepers and market vendors will start out asking at least double what a fair price might be. In places where tourists frequent, like Phnom Penh’s massive 1920’s art deco Central Market (in Khmer Psar Thmey), it is not uncommon to be quoted a price that is five times the fair going rate. Buyers beware!
I find that despite its many seemingly intractable problems, Cambodia’s positive qualities far outweigh the negative and I’d encourage you to come for a visit and find out for yourself.
Click here for an article on how Cambodians are struggling to comprehend their criminal justice system as the Kmer Rouge trials approach.
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